Sunday, June 19, 2016

Look into My Eyes

and tell me I'm not cute.                                   (Fritz photogrpahy)

The eye of the camera                               (Fritz)
 

                                                                                              (Fritz)


Jane asked Fritz to photograph her favorite stuffed animals.


                                                                                 (Fritz)


The eye of a droplet  (Fritz)

Can you even see my eyes?         (Fritz)

Saturday, June 18, 2016

June Reunion

 
 
A seven year friendship (age 10, 11, 12).  Emily and Jane celebrated their June birthdays with a visit from an out-of-town friend.
 
 




Birthday Lass Makes a Splash

 
splashy 12

Saturday, June 11, 2016

Friday, June 10, 2016

A Bad Person Meets a Bulgarian

Little did I know that as I sent Alex to Africa, God was sending me a man from Bulgaria.  This week I had a divine appointment at the airport that I knew nothing about.  There are no coincidences in my Master's timetable.  The fact that it took Alex x-number of minutes to check three heavy suitcases bound for Uganda, x-number of minutes to pray over him one last time, x-number of minutes to watch him snake through the security line is not lost on me.  It took x-number of seconds to wait for the elevator back downstairs where Beth, Luke and I would catch the bus back to remote parking.  It took x-number of seconds to wait for the sliding glass doors to part and x-number of seconds to file into the departing bus.  As we sat in the very front of the bus facing the inner aisle, a seemly nondescript man climbed aboard and sat down across from me.  Later as he shook my hand, I realized how only God could orchestrate such a meeting, because to put the man across from me also depended on the man's schedule to take x-number of minutes to exit his plane, x-number of minutes to claim his luggage, x-number of minutes to find the nearest exit which happened to put us in seats facing each other on the same bus at precisely the same time. 

Let me tell you that God cares about the lost with a passion.  It all started when this man asked Luke if he spoke English.  Well, when you really don't, it is hard to reply.  Luke looked confused.  I chimed in, "No, he doesn't understand very much.  He has only been in the US for three months." Then the floodgates of common experience, unleashed the lips of the man who also immigrated to America.  He told me he was from Bulgaria and asked me if I knew where it was.  I told him that I had studied Eastern European politics in college, and my brother had taken trips to his neighbor Romania.  The man was surprised that I was more educated than many Americans about his part of the world.  We talked about Communism, and he told me how people had eaten back then.  We talked about learning a language as difficult as Hungarian, Russian or Estonian.  He told me an enchanting Bulgarian proverb his father use to tell him, "You can't fatten a pig in two days."  He told me that meat was so expensive that they rarely had it.  When Christmas festivities began, they would butcher their pig, but it had to be diligently fattened through the year rather than just the two days before you feasted.  He told me language learning was like that.  Mr. Bulgaria liked to talk, and I liked asking questions.  Then the man wanted to know more about my major and asked me why there is so much fighting in the world.  I told him that it was because the human heart is never satisfied, and wants what it doesn't have and tries to take what someone else has.  Oh, the uproar.  He defied my statement in saying that the majority of humans are innately good. 

Well, it seemed pretty clear that I needed to introduce Mr. Bulgaria to his "first baddie", myself.  He was appalled when I admitted,  "I am a bad person."  I then went on to tell him about Jesus dying on the cross for my badness and that I was so grateful that Jesus knew my inner badness and still chose to die for me.  I didn't do anything to deserve that love.  He reproached me as a man born in '48 could and quite ironically huffed, "It is a SIN to call yourself bad.  Who told you that you were bad?"  I told him that Jesus came to help me choose good, but on my own I was bad to the bone.  This man of years with silver hair was growing more uncomfortable that this sweet-looking young lady who brought children from around the world into her home could consider herself bad.  I was educated and should have known better.   The crazy thing that day is where I picked up that bus meant we had to travel through many terminals before we reached the remote parking.  God gave me time to share the good news and make a fellow traveler on this earth hopefully question some deep-seated beliefs that we can work our way to heaven.    I hope my friend, the Bulgarian, will become the Bad Person, and by personal confession know the wondrous exchange which happened on the cross.  I pray that as we waved goodbye in the parking lot, he will come to realize the divine appointment God made for him that day was because Christ made himself sin so that we could become the righteousness of God.  Alleluia!

Thursday, May 26, 2016

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Out of the Bottle

When Jeannie, Major Healey, Jeannie's sister, Major Nelson, and Jeannie's mother congregated on my front walk, well, things just started to get exciting.  I have watched enough episodes of "I Dream of Jeannie" to know that when things get too wild that you just have to lure the Jeannie girls back into their bottles, send Major Healey to Siberia and poor Major Nelson has to have a chat with Dr. Bellows.  Here is wishing you an uncorked life full of surprise.
 

Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Wearing yellow helps in life

Having sons that want to make money and having soccer games that need refs has been a logical first job for Alex and Fritz.  Wearing yellow has more added benefits than the cash in their pockets. 
 


Yellow wearers learn how to make split second decisions with an audience.
 
Yellow wearers learn how to conduct themselves in a confident manner.
 
Yellow wearers learn how to teach.  "Pat your shin guards." -Fritz 

Yellow wearers learn how to handle conflict.  The all-important coin toss

Sunday, April 24, 2016

The God of Details

I am so excited that Alex gets to head to Uganda this summer on an amazing mission trip serving
with International Voice of the Orphan.

 
Not only will Alex get to be part of what God is doing at the Gem Foundation, but he will get to visit with his uncle, aunt and cousins who also live in Kampala.  The crazy thing is that this has been many years in the works orchestrated by the God of Details.  

Detail #1 I stumbled upon a blog almost three years ago about a special family who has a heart for Jesus.

Detail #2 When we brought Teddy home two plus years ago, we came to realize he had the same medical condition of one of this family's sons.  Statistically I only originally followed six or so special blogs. Teddy's condition is 1 out of 10,000.  The likelihood of one of those six bloggers having a child with the same condition is crazy.

Detail #3  A little more than a month ago that same family brought home a son who lived with Teddy in his foster home for many years (I even have photographs of them together). In 2014, China's Child Welfare Affairs Office said it had over 500,000 orphans in their system.  The likelihood of my son Teddy having lived with the same family's new son is crazier still.

Detail #4 Before my brother moved to Uganda, I asked if Alex could visit them summer 2016.  Little did I know that God was stirring this same bloggy family to lead a mission trip this summer.

Detail #5 In the Ugandan capital city of over 2,500,000 with limited physical addresses, directions are in the vicinity of something else.  That my brother's house would be less than four miles away from the heart of the mission project and that he would know exactly where a certain coffee shop was located is incredible.

Detail #6  The cost of the trip is exactly to the penny how much we set aside from the combination of Ben's call tithe and the predetermined amount we give monthly to the spontaneous things God lays on our hearts.  How can this be?  God loves to confirm his plans with details that are beyond probabilities.

God can be trusted!